For each of of the next 21 days, I will be sharing specific ways believers can set themselves apart for Christ through prayer, fasting, and intentional focus. Today continues”setting yourself apart by…”
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Setting yourself apart as one who is fully devoted to God requires something so obvious you might not even think of it.
To be set apart for Him, you have to know Him.
I don’t mean knowing with your brain the things you’ve heard about Him or even knowing Him as your Savior. To be devoted wholeheartedly, you have to understand His character – who He is at His core.
Without an understanding of God’s character, you will find yourself wondering if He really loves you, if His plans really are good, if this faith thing really is worth it. But once you know Him, you know those things. Once you know who He is, you know how He’ll act. No, you might not be able to tell what’s coming or what He will allow into your life, but you’ll know that everything is for good. You’ll trust that everything comes from love. And sometimes knowing is half the battle.
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A.W. Tozer said, “What comes into our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us.”
When you think about God, what do you think? Who do you imagine?
Do you envision God as a divine judge with a gavel, condemning you for every mistake?
Do you picture Him as a disapproving father for whom nothing is ever good enough?
Do you think that because He knows it all, He rejects you for your ways?
Too often, we paint our pictures of God with the brushstrokes of humanity, giving Him human failures and frailties. We associate him with humans who have failed us, and we cast Him in the light of those we can see.
God cannot be limited by our finite understanding.
He is only good when humans are often bad.
He is only loving when humans often hate.
He is always patient when humans hurry.
God is not a human, and to set yourself apart for Him, you have to understand that. You have to read what His word says about Him, and you have to commit those words to the deepest parts of yourself.
To be set apart you must be steeped in truth.
Today’s Prayer: “Lord, I repent of all the times I have held a wrong view of you, limiting your omniscience to the power of a man. You say that nothing is too hard for you (Jeremiah 32:27), yet I question whether you can act on my behalf. Even more, I question whether you will. Remind me that your always loving nature remembers me and will never forsake me. God, show me more of who you really are. Erase my wrong notions and replace them with truth.”
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I really am a miserable human being.
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There is nothing magical about fasting, but we do it because of the all-consuming love that was shown to us. We fast so we will be more consumed with God than the things that so easily distract us.
Jesus doesn’t need you to be a scholar.
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There are more books than you could ever read lining Christian bookstore shelves, and you may feel like you need a degree in theology to understand just what it is you believe.
Today’s Prayer: “Lord, you tell us to come to you like little children in order to enter the kingdom of heaven. In a world where we’re constantly confronted by all we don’t know, it can be hard to have the faith of a child, because we think we should have the knowledge of a scholar. While it is a privilege to have access to scholarly books and unlimited knowledge, sometimes we need to forget all the facts and just focus on you. Let us never be tempted to worship what we know instead of Who we know.”
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This week, my calendar and my to-do list have combined forces and renamed themselves “Can We Break Her.”
They’re pretty close.
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Honestly, I can only remember one other season of my life where I felt this much pressure. I don’t know why, but there are a zillion things I must do and far fewer than a zillion minutes in which to do them. And I’m not talking about getting my nails painted or a new novel read. I’m talking about things that really matter. Things that must be done or else.
Last night I did 4.5 hours of work after work. It’s not a complaint, just a fact. I am overwhelmed and under-resourced. And I’m confident I’m not the only one who feels this way, bearing a load that seems unbearable.
Our time is spoken for, and often we’re not the ones speaking for it. When that’s the case, what do we do? We speak to the Time-Maker. We relinquish our schedules and lists and back-breaking burdens to the only One capable of making it all work.
The truth is that unless we make time for God before all the rest AND in all the rest, then the rest will consume and debilitate us. He might not take the to-do’s away, and you might not get that nap, but He will give you rest. He says to His children, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). In the rest of what you have to do, He will be your rest. He says that his yoke is easy and his burden light. Don’t we all want – and desperately need – that?
Today, in it all, invite Him in. Ask Him to be your portion, because He will never run out.
Today’s Prayer: “Jesus, we are tired. Our lists keep growing, and our time keeps ticking, and we just don’t know what to do. Show us what matters, help us subtract the unimportant, and remind us that in it all You will provide what we need. We seek Your face before the rest, and we ask you to give us rest.”
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We all have bonds with people who are different than we are, and sometimes those differences cause conflicts that seem insurmountable. That doesn’t mean that relating to people who are like us is any easier, though. We can share common interests, work, and even a common faith and still run into trouble.
When was the last time you saw your relationships as a way to worship? A way to glorify the God you profess?
Truthfully, it’s hard for me to answer that question. Too often, I see my relationships as a way to get something for myself – a way to bring myself satisfaction rather than a way to serve. But God’s plan for the way we relate to others is so much more, and, of course, so much better.
Like it or not, our relationships with people reflect our relationship with God.
If I were to list words describing how I’ve treated others just this week, it would look something like this:
Impatient.
Bossy.
Demanding.
Critical.
Unsympathetic.
Dismissive.
Those words don’t just describe my behavior. They describe me. My actions reveal my heart, and my relationships are the truest test of my real character.
When God’s Word says things like, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love,” (Eph. 4:2), I am convicted to my core. My failure to do these things is a failure to obey my Lord.
My failure to treat the people bearing God’s image as image-bearers is a message to the watching world, and it’s not the message I want them to see. It’s not the presentation of a gospel-changed life that they need.
Not only do I hurt other people in this way, but also God Himself. He grieves both for the people I hurt and for me. His plan for me involves growth in righteousness, and when I behave selfishly and rudely, righteousness could not be farther away.
Right treatment of others is worship to God, plain and simple. May we choose – daily – to let our relationships reflect His love.
Today’s Prayer: “Father, it is so easy to take our frustrations out on people, both those we know and those we don’t. Before we react, help us reflect. Before we speak, help us stop. Before we lash out, help us listen. Our own determination won’t be enough. We need Your Spirit in us to do what we can’t.”
As soon as they left my lips, my words hit their target. The heart of a person I love.
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Words are a tool given us to express the inexpressible. Words allow us to expose our hearts, for good or evil, and to share the deepest parts of ourselves with those who most need to understand.
What we choose to share in words reveals who we really are at heart.